Best Asian Gay Films 1/2

Written by Kring Elenzano on December 24th, 2008. Posted in Celebrity, Film and TV, Love and Relationships

If there is one thing you should know about me, it’s that I LOVE THE GAYS. So much so that I sometimes honestly believe I am a gay guy trapped in a woman’s body. But that’s for another more personal blog post…

Today, I’m in the mood to share with you guys my top favorite gay films because uhm, I LOVE GLBTQ cinema like no other and I have seen a tad too much of ‘em for my own good why, hallo tharr Hikaru, Nagi and Sho of COAT WEST if you know them and understand what the hell I’m talking about OMG gimme a high-five In fact, when “regular” people learn about my knowledge/collection of queer cinema, they kinda step back a bit, feign a smile and have involuntary eye-twitching.

I do, however have a preference for Asian gay films because… I dunno, I love the twinks Orientals like that . Sorry but there’s none of the Pinoy variety here as there’s shitloads of them that they require a different entry altogether.

ps: These are just recommendations and random comments. And because I deem this post special, it would be in 2 parts. Yebbah!

1. NO REGRET
Dir. : Lee SongHee-Il
Cast: Lee Yeong-Hun, Lee Han, Kim Dong-Wuk

This is truly one of the best homosexual-themed movies ever- Asian or otherwise. It’s no secret that I love Koryan cinema with a passion and have so much respect for their directors, and this is but another one of those that made me go “WHY THE HELL DID I NOT MAKE THAT MOOBEH!?”. Btw, Lee SongHee-Il is the first openly-gay director in their country. Uhm. I can’t even count the number of gay directors in MY country.

Anyway, No Regret is considered an Indie film in Korea (but I bet the budget’s more than a feature film’s budget here, marketing included). It’s not your typical “guy-falls-in-love-with-the-childhood-bestfriend” story and the premise does seem very realistic. Koreans are not very forgiving with their gays and a lot of them are forced into marriage to avoid being ostracized. Many of those who come out end up committing suicide because of the hostility towards them. No, that was not the plot.

There’s nothing really extraordinary about the film but it was very well-written. I mean, it will take you to different highs and lows throughout the whole movie that by the time the credits roll, you’d be emotionally… exercised. You’d probably also root for the couple and hate everyone and everything that gets in their way (and there’s a lot) as the story has the tendency to get the viewers attached. Yanno, like a soap opera. Only gayer. And better.


2. LOVE OF SIAM

Dir. : Chookiat Sakveerakul
Cast : Witwisit Hiranyawongkul, Mario Maurer

An entire nation fell in love with the two young lead actors of the movie and for very good reasons. Love of Siam is a light-hearted drama about friendship, family and of course, first love. Yihee! Sure, there were controversies at first, especially since it was marketed as a straight teen flick, only for some viewers to gasp in horror when they realized that OMG THE TWO BOYS WERE KISSING!

I was rather skeptical about the movie at first because I thought it would be another coming-of-age and out of the closet story, which just happen to star cute boys. Really cute boys. So imagine my delight when it started to dawn on me while watching it that it was pretty darn good! There was obviously no sex scenes or anything (I think they Pchy and Mario were minors when they shot this) though honestly, I wouldn’t have complained. Wait. There was. And it was quite graphic and steamy with Mario on top of… Wait. No. That was just my “dream”.

Love of Siam is a story of innocence and pure, unadulterated feelings. No pretensions or exaggerations. Hell, I liked this movie more than I did Bangkok Love Story even though the latter’s cinematography kicked ass. The whole unrequited love shit got to me and I found myself clutching my chest. And did I mention that the boys are cute, too? *insert fangirl squee here*


3. LAN YU

Dir. : Stanley Kwan
Cast : Ye Liu, Jun Hu

Before I even knew about the film, I chanced upon this story online, which was translated to English called A Beijing Story. It was apparently written by an anonymous Chinese man who shared to the world his tale of love and loss. Boy, I tell you- that piece of literature changed me. I don’t think I’ve cried so much reading something online like I did that night. And so when I learned that there was a film adaptation, I literally scoured the net for a possible copy and a chance to watch it.

Lan Yu, the movie, did not make any waves when it first came out (or even until now). Not a lot of people has seen it and it’s certainly not one of the more talked about queer movies out there. I can say, however, that the strength of the film is the story and the motivation behind the characters’ actions. Sure, I say I was more moved (that’s an understatement) by the written version but the movie has that impact as well.

If you’re a masochist like me, give this film a try and watch your eyes implode. If you’re a gay guy, you gotta watch it because it shows a side of homosexuality that many films don’t dare show. If you’re a middle-aged gay man still hiding in the closet (I dunno if there’s anyone in that category who reads my blog), SLASH YOUR WRIST NOW IF YOU HAVEN’T SEEN THIS FILM YET OR GO TO YESASIA AND ORDER IT NOW.

Whew! That was long… Part 2, coming up!

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  • http://cantseeshit.wordpress.com RJ

    I don’t know how I should react to this..

    Wait, you’re a masochist?

  • http://mrpoe.blogspot.com ron

    you’re into gay guys? thats a shame.

  • kring

    @ RJ
    No need to react, my dear. It’s just a weird side of me that you learned about. Also, yes, I am. But others might say I’m a sadist, too so I dunno, really.

    @ ron
    Uhm. It is?

  • scarletqueen

    my gay officemate watched love of siam and i’ve been meaning to watch it since then…

    mushy but i love the line:
    “i can’t be your boyfriend but that doesn’t mean i don’t love you.”

  • http://writer.fakefiction.com The [Deranged] Writer

    Obviously, I haven’t watched all of that you mentioned. During free time and on bummer mode, I don’t usually watch movies. But since I’ve been watching movies on TV lately because “I need more diversion”, maybe I could go one step further? I’ll take note of these. :D

    And by the way… Nice blog layout we have here! It seems that it’s not WordPress.com hosted anymore? And the header with your photo on it: LOVELY. Stick with this for a while! :)

  • http://www.jehzlau-concepts.com Jehzeel Laurente

    wah. takot ako sa bakla! waaaaaaaaaaaaaaa! hehehe.. :P

  • http://joomlaguro.wordpress.com iceman9

    hmmm… it’s an asian version of err “boy culture”? hehehe cheers

  • admin

    @ scarletqueen
    YOU GOTTA WATCH IT. Not the best I’ve seen but it certainly surpassed my “very low” expectations. ;)

    @ Deranged Writer
    Please do. They’re like available online for download and/or streaming. Also, thanks a lot! It’s courtesy of a very good friend. I may have the pic changed just coz my hair isn’t like that anymore. :D And yup, own host now.

    @ Jehz
    NAKU! WAG KANG GANYAN! Tsk tsk. Kaya maraming “gusto kang tikman” eh… ahihihi.

    @ iceman9
    Haven’t seen boy culture yet but I suppose it’s somewhere along the lines.

  • http://fritzified.com fritz

    Because of this post, I DL’d Love of Siam. Why? I need not make an excuse and I owe no one an explanation. That I wanted to take a glimpse of the world you find so fascinating might be it. I had to choose one of your six so I decided to pick LoS because you said there were no love scenes. AND YOU LIED! THERE’S STEAMY BOY ON BOY LOVE SCENE EVERY TEN MINUTES OF IT (you wish LOL). Just teasin ya. Most of the parts that’s close to the end made me cry (I mean Dayo the animated movie made me cry thrice so yeah, I cry while watching flicks LMAO). The entire plot was in itself simple but there are a lot of emotions going on for it that’s so thick, I swear they all like leapt out of the monitor in rapid succession with each of them having the vendeta of punching me on the throat several times before deciding to gorge my eyes out slowly (thus me crying).

    The direction was awesome. The editing was, as expected from the very talented Thais, flawless. The casting and acting wasn’t forced. The parts where actions made up for spoken lines were perfectly and effectively done (something I have yet to see our local directors do).

    One of the noteworthy scenes that made my head hurt (when I later on tried to analyze it) was that moment and the simplistic dialogue exchanged when Tong was helping his mom out with the Christmas tree ornaments. Why he chose to hang the guy instead of the asexual-looking clown at first did not register anything for me. Only later on did I realize its relevance (much much later on in the film). Dude made his choice and everyone just had to deal with it, himself included. THAT for me, my firend, fucked the main characters up so hard that it made of a really great ending that deserved a slow clap of approval, no less. It wasn’t the most perfect (nor ideal for those who want everything to always end up happily) but it was real enough to make you just shake your head slowly and sideways in both belief and disbelief. LoS is one of those movies that you will not regret watching, whatever your sexual orientation is, so long as you can appreciate a great work of art when you come across one.

    I did not aim to make a review when I initially wrote this but that much sums up what I had to say about Love of Siam. Sorry for taking up a lot of space, pero… ayos ba? ;)

  • kring

    @Fritz
    HOWKAY.
    I HAVE NO WORDS BUT.

    YOU ARE SO MUCH LOVE, MY HEART HURTS. NO, SERIOUSLY.

    And I didn’t think people (especially guys) will give these films a try. Can I hug you for doing so? Liking LoS AND leaving a very long and honest comment?

    Yes? Hintay ka pag nagkita tayo… GLOMPAGE!!!

    *kises*

    kring

  • http://es2pido.com Neil

    At dahil nainggit kay Bathalang Fritz… gagaya na rin ako. :D LOLZ
    —————–

    I think I twitted/plurked about the gay flicks I watched before but I’ll be commenting on the movies posted here that I have already downloaded to my computer and RARed it and renamed as STRAIGHT PORN and encrypted with a 30-char password and made it hidden–NO I WAS JUST KIDDING. :D

    1. No Regret
    Seriously, my first impression on this movie was–okay, a Korean version of the Pinoy gay indie flicks here in the Pines that spammed the indie industry. The story is fine, but a bit “I’ve watched this already”. But the truth is, this movie shocked me. I know for a fact that gay people in SK are highly discriminated, and I have no idea what’s in their country. This movie showed partly about the life of gay men in Korea. I mean, c’mon. Korean moviemakers always aim for the international market, and this director debuted with that “the 1st” marketing something. Well-written and, did I say cinematography was awesome?

    2. Love of Siam

    (please copy paste Bathalang Fritz’s comment here)
    LOL

    The movie’s so bittersweet. (plays “Flavor of Life -Ballad Version-” by Utada Hikaru). Maybe the story is so simple but the truth is, it’s not just about the love between the two main guys. The subplots are equally, if not more heartbreaking as well. I just can’t imagine why such simple story is so well-written. And the stars? So realistically ‘human’. Plus, hindi cheesy ang lines dito unlike sa Bangkok Love Story (though the latter’s so AACK. Brutal). Well-written script plus well-acted characters=LIFE.

    I can’t help but compare this movie to BLS because both are Thai. However, one thing that makes LoS worth my 2nd watch is that it’s so real. On the other hand, IMO, the ‘truthiness’ of BLS is like a gay fantasy movie or something that was meant to be brutally heartbreaking. Too much fact sometimes makes one fictitious.

    Pamatay na line: “I can’t be your boyfriend, but that doesn’t mean I don’t love you.” I cried with Mew. T__T
    ——

    Lately I’m making long comments about TV and film ah.

  • http://es2pido.com Neil

    * with a bit “I’ve watched this already

    ** what’s GAY LIFE in their country

    —–

    Great. Commenting while studying After Effects CS4. Not a good idea.

  • minjee

    i’ve seen ‘no regret’! in fairness may kwento sya! its not all gratuitous gay sex. and may character development! did you notice one of the guys there looks like xiah junsu of tvxq? is it just my pervy little mind lol. i really enjoyed this movie! (hahaha that didnt come out right –or maybe it did lol xD)

    i’ve heard of the other two films but where can i get a copy? my gay friend asked me to find love of siam on the intarwebz and it ran out na in yesasia (sosyal gusto ng hindi pirated lol).

    thanks for the recs! i also checked out the melody because of your rec before before pa hehe.

    happy new year!

  • http://digiputz.com GeoRge

    Hi Kring. I saw “No Regret” last year. The ending was LOL, but sweet. :)

  • kring

    @ Neil
    BLS was so-so to me… I did like the cinematography but heh parang masabi lang na nag-hook up yung dalawang guys! At may halikan sa ulan factor! At rooftop! Hahaha! Chaka wala lang, parang ang over-the-top.

    @ minjee
    Hey thanks for checking out my recommendations! NO PLEASE NONE OF THEM LOOK LIKE JUNSU KTHNXBILOL. They’re all over the interwebs, my dear and I got my pirated copy of No Regret at Metrowalk, I think. See you around!

    @ George
    Haha! It was indeed lol.

  • sm17

    Oh wow, No Regret is up here. I watched that just a week ago. It was okay, I guess.

    I dunno, it felt fast-paced for me. I don’t get why my friend is spazzing over it (probably the sex scenes). I guess I didn’t like the way it was paced, the gratuitous (bordering on porn) sex, shaky scenes (the camera wasn’t steady, I think), and, IMO, bad editing.

    I think it lacked a lot, but I wasn’t into the plot to begin with, so maybe that’s why I didn’t enjoy it as much as I should have.

    And all right. I’ll admit I didn’t mind the sex scenes that much. I just felt like acting like a prude for a second there.

    But thanks for the recs. I’ll look it up. :)

  • http://dosflame.blogspot.com Dos

    Hi Kring, I can say Love of Siam is a damn good movie. It’s one of the few movies I’ve seen where I forgot i’m a viewer. I love how the director made the characters fully developed and made the story progress. I’m just distracted by the acting of Tong’s character, he’s still camera shy and it shows.

    I’m surprised you like gay movies. Lalaki ka nga talaga, este, bading. hehe… joking!

  • http://jirusama.multiply.com ji

    i still have the love of siam syndrome after almost 4 months of watching it ( yeah, i watch the movie again and again for 4 months now)

    i really wanted to cry at the ending but after 4 months of trying, i just can’t..

    that left me with a heavy heart. *sniff*

    now, i’m compensating by forcing my friends to watch it. spread the love!

    haha, i’m a yaoifanboy, you know yaoi, i suppose. XD

    so happy happy together and lan yu are the only films i haven’t watched in ur list. LOL

    am i a pervert or what?haha, LOL

  • http://www.letmedream-yume04.blogspot.com rin

    I have just finished watching Love of Siam (as suggested) and I must say that this is the reason why I love shounen ai…none of the explisit stuff(although I wouldn’t mind them once in a while), but it’s still filled with love minus the nausea from mush. I don’t know if I’m making sense right now, since I am still trying to recover from the emotional roller coaster…any way, I just love this film! Next on my agenda is probably Happy Together…I just hope I can find it on some torrent site.

    Thanks for the recommendations! I need to rest for work now…

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  • http://gdtle1.livejournal.com/ Tiff

    I’ve watched all three as well, and oh my god I totally agree with you about the first two movies. No Regret was hilarious and adorable! The ending was so unexpected xD And Love of Siam is still my favourite, I don’t think I’d ever cried so hard while watching a movie before D:

    But for some reason I was highly disappointed with Lan Yu. I don’t know, it just dragged on…and the ending was so anticlimactic : I’m very curious about the original translated story you mentioned, I’ll have to look that up.

    Have you watched A Frozen Flower? God it’s so sad as well :(

    P.S Hikaru, Sho and Nagi…omnomnom xD

  • Josemorato13

    Kring I loved the Love of Siam aswell cried my eyes out! :)

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